January 20, 2026 11:17 AM EST
I’ve been thinking a lot about how important it is to have someone trustworthy and compatible to help my mom at home. We’ve tried a couple of caregivers before, but it always felt awkward and she didn’t seem comfortable for long. Sometimes their personalities didn’t click, or they didn’t seem prepared for the kinds of help she really needs, especially with her mobility challenges and daily routines. I know that having a caregiver who fits well with her preferences and needs could make everything easier, but I’m stuck on how to gauge that before it becomes a long term situation. Has anyone gone through a similar challenge trying to match caregiving help to someone’s personality and daily needs?